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		<title>By: green smoke coupon</title>
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		<dc:creator>green smoke coupon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Apr 2013 04:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Hayley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hayley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 05:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Brie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 16:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have read all 3 books and enjoyed them for what they were, mindless entertainment, but hey ever so often I want to be entertained without using my brain.  I can see that women who don&#039;t like the books would be on the defensive because so many people are obsessed with them, however I think the backlash against them is not fair.  My sister who did not want to read these and was disgusted by the concept but caved due to curiosity commented they are nothing like the detractors complaints.  Most if the sex is NOT kinky, only a few BDSM type sex scenes, and very watered down at that.  The plot of the story is a damaged man getting healthier, in his sex life and emotional life, by being challenged by a woman he falls for that will not be dominated as he prefers so he can be emotionally unavailable.  It is the classic fantasy of a woman changing a man, not the man changing the woman, and a woman breaking through a troubled man&#039;s emotional barriers.  This is not a new theme, it is accented with many accounts of the woman having countless orgasms, but a man that is eager to please is also a fantasy for some women who have men that rarely think about their sexual pleasure, and whether they are tied up and blindfolded when the man is so concerned about blowing their mind really is irrelevant in my opinion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have read all 3 books and enjoyed them for what they were, mindless entertainment, but hey ever so often I want to be entertained without using my brain.  I can see that women who don&#8217;t like the books would be on the defensive because so many people are obsessed with them, however I think the backlash against them is not fair.  My sister who did not want to read these and was disgusted by the concept but caved due to curiosity commented they are nothing like the detractors complaints.  Most if the sex is NOT kinky, only a few BDSM type sex scenes, and very watered down at that.  The plot of the story is a damaged man getting healthier, in his sex life and emotional life, by being challenged by a woman he falls for that will not be dominated as he prefers so he can be emotionally unavailable.  It is the classic fantasy of a woman changing a man, not the man changing the woman, and a woman breaking through a troubled man&#8217;s emotional barriers.  This is not a new theme, it is accented with many accounts of the woman having countless orgasms, but a man that is eager to please is also a fantasy for some women who have men that rarely think about their sexual pleasure, and whether they are tied up and blindfolded when the man is so concerned about blowing their mind really is irrelevant in my opinion.</p>
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		<title>By: Alisha Ria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alisha Ria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 01:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I have never heard of this book before today but it doesn&#039;t sound like my type. The hero (minus the wealth) reminds me of an ex, who was emotionally abuse and would probably want a contract where the girl would do everything he says. Ugh *shudder*. However, I agree with you that it&#039;s fine for women to be turned on by whatever they want, we&#039;re all different...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I have never heard of this book before today but it doesn&#8217;t sound like my type. The hero (minus the wealth) reminds me of an ex, who was emotionally abuse and would probably want a contract where the girl would do everything he says. Ugh *shudder*. However, I agree with you that it&#8217;s fine for women to be turned on by whatever they want, we&#8217;re all different&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: What&#8217;s Up In the Fatosphere &#124; Manolo for the Big Girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>What&#8217;s Up In the Fatosphere &#124; Manolo for the Big Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 16:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] actually a codified part of the Fatosphere, but I loved this article by Kate of Eat the Damn Cake on her musings about Fifty Shades of Grey. Oh, and while you&#8217;re [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] actually a codified part of the Fatosphere, but I loved this article by Kate of Eat the Damn Cake on her musings about Fifty Shades of Grey. Oh, and while you&#8217;re [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Emmie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emmie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 06:23:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had never heard of this book until this post but it doesn&#039;t sound very appealing to me and I&#039;m actually in a 24/7 D/s relationship and have been for several years. Anyone who knows me would agree that I am happy, confident, and competent. I just enjoy being the submissive partner in my relationship. It doesn&#039;t sound like the book is good or bad for women, just a book which some people enjoy and others don&#039;t.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had never heard of this book until this post but it doesn&#8217;t sound very appealing to me and I&#8217;m actually in a 24/7 D/s relationship and have been for several years. Anyone who knows me would agree that I am happy, confident, and competent. I just enjoy being the submissive partner in my relationship. It doesn&#8217;t sound like the book is good or bad for women, just a book which some people enjoy and others don&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>By: Book 31: Fifty Shades of Grey &#171; Leaves of Trees</title>
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		<dc:creator>Book 31: Fifty Shades of Grey &#171; Leaves of Trees</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 22:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I decided to read it because of a post I saw about it on a blog I read. Here&#8217;s the post: the very hot new book that women love. I figured, hey, if it&#8217;s good enough for the internet, then it&#8217;s good enough for [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I decided to read it because of a post I saw about it on a blog I read. Here&#8217;s the post: the very hot new book that women love. I figured, hey, if it&#8217;s good enough for the internet, then it&#8217;s good enough for [...]</p>
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		<title>By: rmncereader</title>
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		<dc:creator>rmncereader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 00:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As Elsa said I am also a big fan of romance novels however i try not to read it in public. However, one thing I have noticed is that in recent years every romance novel has become too much sexualized. And new authors pay more importance towards the sexual relationship rather than the plot/story itself.Maybe thats why I mainly stick to authors who started their careers in early 90s and some new ones. Also good romance authors do have a strong female characters. Some good romance authors have good mixture plot, romance and sex. But now everything is SEX and no-depth to their characters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As Elsa said I am also a big fan of romance novels however i try not to read it in public. However, one thing I have noticed is that in recent years every romance novel has become too much sexualized. And new authors pay more importance towards the sexual relationship rather than the plot/story itself.Maybe thats why I mainly stick to authors who started their careers in early 90s and some new ones. Also good romance authors do have a strong female characters. Some good romance authors have good mixture plot, romance and sex. But now everything is SEX and no-depth to their characters.</p>
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		<title>By: Joy Daniels (@AuthorJDaniels)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joy Daniels (@AuthorJDaniels)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 14:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll tell you one group of (mostly) women that this novel is good for: writers of erotic romance. Being one of them it makes me very very happy to hear that hundreds of thousands of women have &quot;discovered&quot; erotic romance. I only hope that they&#039;ll want to read more!

The &quot;mommy porn&quot; label did irk me: as if the fact that &quot;mommies&quot; were reading these stories was so shocking because we&#039;re all supposed to be asexual  - except of course for the act that MADE US MOMMIES. Or are we all supposed to aspire to immaculate conception?

(I heard a rumor that there was  a Jewish girl who managed to do that but THIS ONE ain&#039;t interested).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll tell you one group of (mostly) women that this novel is good for: writers of erotic romance. Being one of them it makes me very very happy to hear that hundreds of thousands of women have &#8220;discovered&#8221; erotic romance. I only hope that they&#8217;ll want to read more!</p>
<p>The &#8220;mommy porn&#8221; label did irk me: as if the fact that &#8220;mommies&#8221; were reading these stories was so shocking because we&#8217;re all supposed to be asexual  &#8211; except of course for the act that MADE US MOMMIES. Or are we all supposed to aspire to immaculate conception?</p>
<p>(I heard a rumor that there was  a Jewish girl who managed to do that but THIS ONE ain&#8217;t interested).</p>
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		<title>By: Mandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2012 22:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting.  I&#039;ve always been an outsider, so I&#039;ve never felt the need to like what everyone else does.  I think that makes me more interesting, not less.
Never read the book, and after your review, I find I&#039;m not interested.  I read the first Twilight book, and wasn&#039;t particularly impressed with any of the characters--and quite frankly, the idea of sparkly vampires were just too much for my Suspenders of Disbelief (thank you Howard Taylor of Schlock Mercenary for that wonderful phrase!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting.  I&#8217;ve always been an outsider, so I&#8217;ve never felt the need to like what everyone else does.  I think that makes me more interesting, not less.<br />
Never read the book, and after your review, I find I&#8217;m not interested.  I read the first Twilight book, and wasn&#8217;t particularly impressed with any of the characters&#8211;and quite frankly, the idea of sparkly vampires were just too much for my Suspenders of Disbelief (thank you Howard Taylor of Schlock Mercenary for that wonderful phrase!)</p>
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